Grandpa Sam Leibowitz came to the United States at 16, in
1907, the year of the greatest immigration to the U.S. in the 20th century. His
older sister, Rose, had come a year earlier, and his next younger sister, Lena,
came the following year. And in 1910, his widowed mother, with three of her
four youngest children arrived, just in time to be counted in the 1910 census.
(I questioned a genealogy librarian about what might have been the reason Max,
then 14, might
Sam's mother and one of his sisters |
Sam’s
mother was illiterate and very superstitious, according to my mother. When she
clipped her fingernails, she burned the clippings, to prevent their being used
against her. And she never learned English. Her youngest daughter died at 13,
according to one story one board the ship bringing the family to the U.S., but
her death date doesn’t accord with census records.
Sam was
from the same town as my grandmother, Liz, but they met in New York. My
impression is that they met at the landsman restaurant her parents ran, but
Jack remembers hearing some story that they met at a union rally outside the
Winter Garden Theater. However, they met, they married in 1917, and my mother
was born a year later.
Sam's draft card during WWI |
I don’t
know how Sam came to work in the fur industry, but in his work he also became a
union organizer. He remembered students coming to the estate, where his father
had been an overseer, from the big cities after the 1905 revolution in Russia
to talk about the revolution. He had a draft card that noted he was working for
the Fur and Leather Workers Union in 1917 and 1918. I don’t know how soon after
the Bolshevik Revolution he joined the American Communist Party, but he was
definitely in the Party because after the Taft-Hartley Act was passed in 1947,
there were many conversations at the dining table about what he was going to do
about its anti-Communist affidavit. But I’m getting ahead of myself here.
Through
much of the 1920s, Sam worked and organized, and his family moved, sometimes
every year. There was an oversupply of apartments, so landlords offered a
month’s free rent, which was an incentive for working people to change
apartments. Sometime in the late 1920s, however, he was blacklisted and
couldn’t get work at all. So he moved the family, first to Washington, D.C.,
where he or Liz, my grandmother, must have known people, then to Richmond,
Virginia. At first he tried to do fur repair work, but Richmond was not a place
where furs were much worn—it just didn’t get that cold. So he and Liz ran a
grocery store in a poor neighborhood, near the street-car depot. But he kept in
touch with his comrades back in New York, and when WWII started and now Soviet
Russia was an ally, he was called back to New York to work at the union office.
Where he worked until that question of the anti-Communist daffidavit came up. (I
wrote about this in my red-diaper baby memoir.) His friend, My grandpa, in the index |
They took me to
see my first movie, “Little Women,” at Radio City Music Hall, at Christmas.
Granny was my little sister’s protector in any dispute among us children.
Grandpa talked to us like we were grownups; when he asked what we were doing,
it sounded like he really wanted to know. He was very mild-mannered, not
dogmatic in his ideas.
Granny was a
classic worrywart. After a visit with them in Brooklyn, we had to call her
collect once we got home so she would know we were home safe. She worked at
Macy’s in the lingerie department. When they visited us when we were still
children, she gave us backrubs before we went to sleep, and each of us wanted
her to stay with us the longest. And she cooked. She made knishes unlike any
knish I’ve seen since, with a pastry she stretched so thin it hung over the
edge of the table and was translucent. It was more like a potato and onion
strudel.
Sam & Liz, maybe 1950 |
I never really
talked to Grandpa Sam about politics. But I remember late in his life, he went
back to the Soviet Union with his second wife (Liz had died of an abdominal
cancer in her early 70s), Gussie, even more political than he was. He told us
about flying to Riga from Moscow, where Gussie had relatives, and mentioned
that they didn’t get any meal on a three-hour flight. Gussie got very defensive
at what she took to be a slam against the Communist Motherland, and Sam said,
mildly, “Gussie, I’m not criticizing the Soviet Union. I just think it would
have been nice to have a bite to eat.”
My mother had
lots of cousins from Sam’s family, but while my mother may have kept in touch
with some of them, they were never part of the family I grew up in. I’ve met a
few since, but it’s hard to maintain contact with family who are otherwise
strangers.
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