I had my annual mammogram today. I don’t know what it’s like
where you live, but in New York almost every mammogram technician is from
eastern Europe. I always ask where east Europeans are from, since, back in
1991, I co-founded a nonprofit, the Network of East-West Women, supporting
women activists in the post-communist countries, and still co-moderate a
workshop on their issues.
Today’s
tech was a late-middle-aged woman with short dark hair. When I asked where she
was from, she answered by asking me to guess. Hmm, I thought, is she Russian?
Polish? Serbian? Croatian? Not Bulgarian, I thought. “Russia?” I guessed. Yes,
she replied. I said I’d traveled in eastern Europe, but wasn’t good at
distinguishing accents. She said their languages were all Slavic, so they
mostly sounded the same. I said, not really, Czech sounded quite different from
Polish.
Then there
were several minutes of her positioning me into the machine, adjusting my body
and arms, and letting the machine squash my breast. There’s one position, with
my shoulder down and head turned back, that always feels like a frozen dance
move.
When I
asked where in Russia she was from (maybe I’d met someone from there?), she
confessed that actually she was from Tajikistan, near Afghanistan, in what they
called Middle Asia, but she’d stopped saying that when most Americans had never
heard of Tajikistan. (My workshop has had a couple of speakers from
Tajikistan.) I asked if she spoke Tajik. She said, the Tajik speak Farsi, but it’s
written in Cyrillic. She still speaks it, but not so well, and her children,
born here, don’t speak it at all and aren’t
interested in Tajikistan.
One
hundred years ago, there were massive numbers of immigrants into the United
States — including all my grandparents. It feels like we’ve having another wave
now, and I welcome them.
An interesting story, meeting a women with a story. My grandparents were immigrants to Canada in the early 1900's from The Ukraine.
ReplyDeleteI welcome the immigrants to The United States too.
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Pamela
where in Ukraine were your grandparents from? My maternal grandparents were from Khotin (or Chotin, or Hotin, all depending on the language), a town now in south-central Ukraine, but in Romania between the world wars.
DeleteAn interesting story, meeting a women with a story. My grandparents were immigrants to Canada in the early 1900's from The Ukraine.
ReplyDeleteI welcome the immigrants to The United States too.
xo
Pamela
This is so interesting. I have heard of Tajikistan, but didn't know what language they spoke. I didn't realize until this year that Ukrainian is a language different than Russian.
ReplyDeletein many ways, it's differences in pronunciation, but there are probably also differences in vocabulary. Here's a funny story about "Serbo-Croatian," a single language that apparently no longer exists. In the late 1990s, a few years after the wars that broke up Yugoslavia had stopped, a film festival in Croatia showed a film from Serbia -- with subtitles. A Croatian friend thought this was hilarious; when Yugoslavia was one country, they all spoke one language. Now that they were separate countries, suddenly they needed subtitles?
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