My mother’s parents, Liz and Sam, met in New York City in
the early 20th century. Both came from what is now south-central Ukraine, a
town called Khotin, or Chotin, or Hotin, depending on whether you spoke Russin,
Yiddish, or Ukrainian. (There were also Hungarian, Polish, Romanian, and
Turkish names, but I didn’t record them when I worked as part of a team of 12
copy editors on a massive revision of the Columbia Gazetteer in the late 1990s.
Khotin was ruled or had residents who spoke all of these languages over the
ages, and it was named first in the third century. It was also at the northern
tip of what was also called Bessarabia.)
Liz’s
family ran a small restaurant in their apartment for “landsman,” people from
their region of the world. Khotin became part of Romania between the wars, but
when WWII came, Romania pushed many of its Jews across the Dniester River,
where the German, and some Ukrainians killed as many as they could. (It doesn’t
seem to be part of what is now called Transnistria, though that name was
applied to the area when Jews were killed en masse.) Liz corresponded with her family back in
Khotin until the war, but after, my mother told me, there was silence.
So, while I
know there is no more family in Ukraine, I still closely follow the news coming
from there now, hoping the war will stay away from that city (last population
around 10,000). Many around the world are watching with horror what is
happening, and those with families still there are much more connected than I
am. Yet I still feel connected to a place I have never been and know almost no family
stories about.
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participating in the 15th annual Slice of Life Challenge over at Two
Writing Teachers. This is day 16 of the 31-day
challenge. It’s not too late to make space for daily writing in a
community that is encouraging, enthusiastic, and eager to read what you have to
slice about. Join in!