I love Flax brand clothing. Their linen pants and jackets
are my summer wardrobe. And oddly, there seems to be only one store in
Manhattan that reliably carries their stock. So, when my white pants wore out
in the seat a couple of months ago, I went online to see where I could buy a
replacement.
I found a
store in Charlottesville, Virginia. (This was before the white supremacist
rally.) Ordered two pair via the Web site (so I’d have an instant replacement
if/when my replacement pair wore out), had a problem about the size, called and
talked to a human being, who easily fixed the problem—and I got my pants in a
couple of days.
A week
later, after the horror of the white supremacists and the death of Heather
Heyer, I e-mailed the store to ask if they were all okay, and they replied that
they were. I felt I had a connection to this city I’ve never been to, just
because I’d bought something over the Internet.
A couple of
weeks ago, my black Flax pants wore out. I couldn’t remember the style of pants
I’d ordered in August, so I called the store. The woman who answered was in the
midst of trying on a pair of pants for another caller, so she asked me to hold.
But she continued to talk, and we chatted some about how when you’ve asked
someone to hold, you feel compelled to keep talking so the other person knows
you are still there, even as you are doing something else.
When she
looked up my previous order and saw I lived on
Riverside Drive in New York City, she said, “Oh, I grew up at 98th and
Riverside.” She added, “I went to Ethical Culture and Fieldston” (two private
schools), so I added, “My daughter went to Bank Street and Columbia Prep.” Some
more chat about the weather and that the windy side streets off of Riverside
Drive had sent her mother out of the city.
It wasn’t a
true small world story; we didn’t talk long enough to find out whether we knew
any people in common. She did have to get back to her work selling clothes. But
it was still a human connection, over many hundreds of miles.
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It is sometimes truly amazing how small the world can be sometimes.This was a true "Slice of Life" story!
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DeleteYes, that is what we all need, the human connection. Thank you for sharing.
ReplyDeleteYour slice nicely illustrates the power of being open to making new connections.
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