This
morning I was trying to put some food containers onto a top shelf in the
kitchen, but felt some resistance. Reaching to the back of the shelf, I scraped
out the following items: half a dozen small brown paper bags and a card
offering gift discounts to Netflix, with an expiration date of October 31,
2008.
Here was a
strong reminder of my late husband. Jack saved those paper bags because when he
bought yogurt on his way to the gym or a movie, he often wasn’t given a bag to
hold the container. So he saved bags that he did get, and he kept them on the
top shelf of that cabinet.
Now why was
that Netflix offer up there? Did it come in the mail and he just tossed it to
get it out of the way? I’m sure he wasn’t planning to give those discount cards
to anyone—that wasn’t a thing he did.
But that
date, October 31, 2008. So many things are true of that date. Jack hadn’t yet
fallen on the ice. My mother hadn’t died yet. Neither had my father or my
sister, though her cancer had recurred. I was still working full-time at
Publishers Weekly, which was still part of the corporate empire of
Reed-Elsevier. The economy had just collapsed, and Barack Obama was running for
president. The election was less than a week away, but I was convinced Obama
would win, because I’d been doing data entry for the Democratic Party, and
canvassers in Muncie, Indiana, were reporting that a third of the voters they
spoke with said they would vote for Obama. In Indiana! As Republican a state as
there was, a state where the KKK had of the 1920s had been in full flower.
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I’m
participating in the 12th annual Slice of Life Challenge over at Two
Writing Teachers. This is day 1 of the 31-day
challenge. It’s not too late to make space for daily writing in a
community that is encouraging, enthusiastic, and eager to read what you have to
slice about. Join in!
Amazing how many memories came back to you from what you found on the top of the fridge. All the life that hadn't happened yet. An unanswered Netflix question. This post really is the essence of Slice of Life- an everyday moment that leads to deeper thoughts and memories.
ReplyDeleteIncredible the differences then to now. Yes, 10 years is a long time, but these changes ... wow.
ReplyDeleteIsn't it amazing how a piece of paper can bring about a rush of memories? It never ceases to amaze me how our minds work.
ReplyDeleteWow, it really is the small things that make a person real to us. All of those little "quirks" that bring a smile to our faces.
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