On the
subway home from my book group today, I was sitting next to a young woman. She
was with a young man who was standing in front of her. They were speaking
Spanish.
That is, he
was speaking Spanish. In the almost 10 minutes I was on the train, he spoke
almost constantly, while she sat, hands in her coat pockets, sometimes nodding
her head. Once she asked a question. Otherwise, she said nothing.
I don’t
understand Spanish so have no idea what he was ranting about. From his tone of
voice, it did sound like a rant. What was she thinking? I wondered. (Was he mansplaining? I really
should learn Spanish, if I’m going to eavesdrop on subway conversations, or
monologues.)
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I love the humor in this! Too bad you'll never know the answer to your questions. :-) ~JudyK
ReplyDeleteGreat, I love the word "mansplaining" that is so cool (is there a female version?!) I live in India and don't understand most of the conversations around me when I go out...sometimes I want to know, sometimes I don't. Such a fun slice!!
ReplyDeleteThanks! If you're interested, here's the essay that generated the term "mansplaining" (subsequently out in a 2012 book): http://www.tomdispatch.com/blog/175584/rebecca_solnit_the_archipelago_of_ignorance
DeleteI don't think there's a female version -- that would require a change in power dynamics.