I think I had a burst of energy from the memorial, with all
the people and relatives last weekend, and it ran out yesterday. Is that why I
forgot about writing my Slice until it was too late?
Here’s
today’s. I’m walking home after shopping and pass a couple roughly our age, he
in a wheelchair, she pushing, and she stops. She says, “I can’t push you when
you do that.” He says, “But I have to.” As I pass them, I see that his
wheelchair does not have foot rests. I remember that it’s hard to get into the
wheelchair when foot rests are attached, even when the food pads are flipped
aside. I wonder if she’s complaining because he’s using his feet to “walk”
along, because I remember that it’s hard to push slowly enough when the sitter
does that — and it’s also hard for the sitter to hold his feet off the ground
if the foot rests are gone. I wonder about their relationship and how long she's been having to push him in the wheelchair. I hope they have a flat entrance into their building and an elevator. I am relieved and sorry that Jack and I won’t have
to face these problems.
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Sunday, March 13, 2016
Tuesday, November 3, 2015
Slice of Life Tuesday
How to Become a Nurse in 24 Steps
1. Have no interest in the internal workings of the human body. Have
no interest in medicine.
2. Have a spouse whose health becomes less than optimal. Weather
his health crisis, with complications, 17 years ago, and his fall last year and
developing disability.
3. See a therapist to handle your emotional complications to your
spouse’s physical complications.
4. Shriek in the quiet room of your dreams.
5. Wake up to water leaking from his legs.
6. Panic.
7. Find gauze bandages in a closet and wonder why they are there.
8. Panic.
9. Make a bandage to soak up the leaking fluid.
10. Change the bandage.
11. Change the bandage again.
12. Change the bandage again.
13. Cry in the shower.
14. Photograph the growing size and number of blisters on his
leg.
15. Panic.
16. Change the bandage.
17. Think of spreading butter on puff pastry as you spread medication
on the bandage.
18. Think of piecing a quilt as you position the bandage on his
leg.
19. See a doctor, and another doctor, and another doctor.
20. Scream for help to gods you don’t believe in.
21. Dream of hordes of tiny insects and creatures crawling out of
the leaking blisters.
22. Cover the creatures with more bandages.
23. Panic.
24. Repeat.
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