Showing posts with label caregiving. Show all posts
Showing posts with label caregiving. Show all posts

Sunday, March 13, 2016

SOLSC Day 13: Glad & Sad


I think I had a burst of energy from the memorial, with all the people and relatives last weekend, and it ran out yesterday. Is that why I forgot about writing my Slice until it was too late?
            Here’s today’s. I’m walking home after shopping and pass a couple roughly our age, he in a wheelchair, she pushing, and she stops. She says, “I can’t push you when you do that.” He says, “But I have to.” As I pass them, I see that his wheelchair does not have foot rests. I remember that it’s hard to get into the wheelchair when foot rests are attached, even when the food pads are flipped aside. I wonder if she’s complaining because he’s using his feet to “walk” along, because I remember that it’s hard to push slowly enough when the sitter does that — and it’s also hard for the sitter to hold his feet off the ground if the foot rests are gone. I wonder about their relationship and how long she's been having to push him in the wheelchair. I hope they have a flat entrance into their building and an elevator. I am relieved and sorry that Jack and I won’t have to face these problems.

Tuesday, November 3, 2015

Slice of Life Tuesday


How to Become a Nurse in 24 Steps

1. Have no interest in the internal workings of the human body. Have no interest in medicine.
2. Have a spouse whose health becomes less than optimal. Weather his health crisis, with complications, 17 years ago, and his fall last year and developing disability.
3. See a therapist to handle your emotional complications to your spouse’s physical complications.
4. Shriek in the quiet room of your dreams.
5. Wake up to water leaking from his legs.
6. Panic.
7. Find gauze bandages in a closet and wonder why they are there.
8. Panic.
9. Make a bandage to soak up the leaking fluid.
10. Change the bandage.
11. Change the bandage again.
12. Change the bandage again.
13. Cry in the shower.
14. Photograph the growing size and number of blisters on his leg.
15. Panic.
16. Change the bandage.
17. Think of spreading butter on puff pastry as you spread medication on the bandage.
18. Think of piecing a quilt as you position the bandage on his leg.
19. See a doctor, and another doctor, and another doctor.
20. Scream for help to gods you don’t believe in.
21. Dream of hordes of tiny insects and creatures crawling out of the leaking blisters.
22. Cover the creatures with more bandages.
23. Panic.
24. Repeat.